[Subrino]

Da li mislite da to što se djeca isključivo dodjeljuju majci tijekom rastave pošteno? A očevi nemaju tu nikakvu ulogu?

Smatrate li da je samohrana majka bolja od samohranog oca?

[El Diablo]

Koliko sam shvatio, očevi "daju" djecu majkama, ko da se to podrazumijeva,.,.,.
mislim da je apsolutno svejedno, chovjek koji che se boriti za skrb svoga djeteta je sposoban brinuti se o njemu,.

[Subrino]

Postoji veliki postotak muškaraca koji su voljni predati svoju djecu majci jer su poznati da ne vole previše obaveze, a muškarci su poznati po tome. Što više manje, tim bolje. Zato su majke navikle na takav rad. A i nježnije su prema djeci, možda ih i vole malo više nego otac jer su ih nosili devet mjeseci u trbuhu. No ne mora značiti da su i sve majke idilične te da ima i loših majki.

[Miss Marple]

Uglavnom su majke bolji izbor, ali ne i uvijek.
Očevi se nakon razvoda, u većini slučajeva koje znam, ponašaju onako kako
želi njihova nova supruga, ili cura.

[Subrino]

Miss Marple, on Nov 15 2006, 04:03 PM, said:

Uglavnom su majke bolji izbor, ali ne i uvijek.
Očevi se nakon razvoda, u većini slučajeva koje znam, ponašaju onako kako
želi njihova nova supruga, ili cura.

I to je jedan razlog, ali ne opravdan. No nisu svi očevi vezani za nekoga nakon rastave. Vjerojatno radije puštaju da njihova djeca budu sa majkama jel su privrženija s njima a i ruku na srce, muškarci i ne vole previše obaveze na svojim leđima.

[Miss Marple]

Istina. Puno puta sam požalila što nisam muško. Daš 500 kn alimentacije, pardon, i napraviš ga
i to je sve. Ja bih tako imala par komada djece.

[Subrino]

Zanimljivo je da su većina muškaraca nakon rastave sretni što su sami makar vole djecu...ali ipak sretni što su sami i što imaju svoj mir i slobodu, a licemjerno mi je kada negodovaju zbog plaćanja alimentacije...pa to odgađaju...

[ispijena]

Subrino, on Nov 14 2006, 07:39 PM, said:

Da li mislite da to što se djeca isključivo dodjeljuju majci tijekom rastave pošteno? A očevi nemaju tu nikakvu ulogu?

Smatrate li da je samohrana majka bolja od samohranog oca?

kako stvari stoje kod mene,trenutno je otac bolja opcija!!Razvedena sam 11god.,djeca su dodijeljena meni na skrb,borila sam se za njih dok je dragi tata plačao alimentaciju od 642,43kn.Djecu vidja usput i razmijeni koju riječ sa njima.Sada,kada sam dobila otkaz zbog stečaja firme u kojoj sam radila,te nakon 11god borbe sa djecom,njihovim bolestima,pubertetom,losim ocjenama u školi.....rado bih prepustila skrbništvo ocu,samo neznam kako to izvesti????????????????????

[sociolog]

Situacija glede skrbništva nad djecom je slijedeća. U svim razvijenim europskim zemljama, dijete se ne dodjeljuje prema spolnosti, dakle muskarcu ili zeni, vec prema sposobnosti onog roditelja koji najvise zadovoljava kriterije: financijske, materijalne i psihološke strane.

Nažalost praksa u Hrvatskoj je drukčija, socijalna skrb ne radi svoj posao i dijete obično dodjeljuje majci na skrbništvo, iako ista ne mora biti niti zrela niti odgovorna.

[sunshine0]

Can it really be sixty-two years ago that I first saw you?

It is truly a lifetime, I know. But as I gaze into your eyes now, it seems like only yesterday that I first saw you, in that small café in Hanover Square. (power leveling)

From the moment I saw you smile, as you opened the door for that young mother and her newborn baby. I knew. I knew that I wanted to share the rest of my life with you.

I still think of how foolish I must have looked, as I gazed at you, that first time. I remember watching you intently, as you took off your hat and loosely shook your short dark hair with your fingers. I felt myself becoming 1)immersed in your every detail, as you placed your hat on the table and cupped your hands around the hot cup of tea, gently blowing the steam away with your 2)pouted lips.

From that moment, everything seemed to make perfect sense to me. The people in the café and the busy street outside all disappeared into a 3)hazy 4)blur. All I could see was you.

All through my life I have relived that very first day. Many, many times I have sat and thought about that the first day, and how for a few 5)fleeting moments I am there, feeling again what is like to know true love for the very first time. It pleases me that I can still have those feelings now after all those years, and I know I will always have them to comfort me.

Not even as I shook and trembled uncontrollably in the 6)trenches, did I forget your face. I would sit huddled into the wet mud, terrified, as the hails of bullets and mortars crashed down around me. I would 7)clutch my rifle tightly to my heart, and think again of that very first day we met. I would cry out in fear, as the noise of war beat down around me. But, as I thought of you and saw you smiling back at me, everything around me would be become silent, and I would be with you again for a few precious moments, far from the death and destruction. It would not be until I opened my eyes once again, that I would see and hear the 8)carnage of the war around me.

I cannot tell you how strong my love for you was back then, when I returned to you on leave in the September, feeling 9)battered, bruised and fragile. We held each other so tight I thought we would burst. I asked you to marry me the very same day and I 10)whooped with joy when you looked deep into my eyes and said "yes" to being my bride.(wow power level)

I`m looking at our wedding photo now, the one on our dressing table, next to your jewellery box. I think of how young and innocent we were back then. I remember being on the church steps grinning like a 11)Cheshire cat, when you said how dashing and handsome I looked in my uniform. The photo is old and faded now, but when I look at it, I only see the bright vibrant colors of our youth. I can still remember every detail of the pretty wedding dress your mother made for you, with its fine delicate lace and pretty pearls. If I concentrate hard enough, I can smell the sweetness of your wedding bouquet as you held it so proudly for everyone to see.

I remember being so over enjoyed, when a year later, you gently held my hand to your waist and whispered in my ear that we were going to be a family.

I know both our children love you dearly; they are outside the door now, waiting.

Do you remember how I panicked like a mad man when Jonathon was born? I can still picture you laughing and smiling at me now, as I 12)clumsily held him for the very first time in my arms. I watched as your laughter faded into tears, as I stared at him and cried my own tears of joy.

Sarah and Tom arrived this morning with little Tessie. Can you remember how we both hugged each other tightly when we saw our tiny granddaughter for the first time? I can`t believe she will be eight next month. I am trying not to cry, my love, as I tell you how beautiful she looks today in her pretty dress and red shiny shoes, she reminds me so much of you that first day we met. She has her hair cut short now, just like yours was all those years ago. When I met her at the door her smile wrapped around me like a warm glove, just like yours used to do, my darling.world of warcraft power leveling

I know you are tired, my dear, and I must let you go. But I love you so much it hurts to do so.

As we grew old together, I would tease you that you had not changed since we first met. But it is true, my darling. I do not see the wrinkles and grey hair that other people see. When I look at you now, I only see your sweet tender lips and youthful sparkling eyes as we sat and had out first picnic next to that small stream, and chased each other around that big old oak tree. I remember wishing those first few days together would last forever. Do you remember how exciting and wonderful those days were?

I must go now, my darling. Our children are waiting outside. They want to say goodbye to you.

I wipe the tears away from my eyes and bend my frail old legs down to the floor, so that I can kneel beside you. I lean close to you and take hold of your hand and kiss your tender lips for the very last time.

[Ljunki]

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For the wealthy, 2007 was the year that bigger was better -- from yachts and incomes to personal staff and art collections.

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The fallout from the debt-market crisis, along with growing concerns about inequality and the environment, are likely to usher in a year of moderation for the rich. Don't worry: Conspicuous consumption won't disappear.

Yet the recent surge in the population of millionaires and billionaires is likely to slow, at least in the near term. Buzzwords like 'mass luxury' and 'exclusive' are likely to be replaced by terms like 'authenticity' and 'sustainability.' In 2008, the rich will strive to be more down to earth, even as they take off in their new G550 private jets.

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Here are some of the most likely trends among the super-rich for 2008.

Conventional wisdom today says the wealthy are exempt from the forces of economic gravity. Luxury real-estate sales are booming, say real-estate agents, even as the rest of the housing market craters. Neiman Marcus is outshining Wal-Mart. The rich will continue to spend, we're told, because they're receiving the lion's share of the nation's wealth and income growth.

This has held true -- so far. The rich (especially the super-wealthy) will fare better than the broader consumer, since they have more of a financial cushion. Yet because so much of today's wealth is tied to financial markets, the wealthy will feel the effects of any dramatic decline in stock markets, hedge funds and private equity. One key issue: Mergers and acquisitions -- the main drivers of big wealth -- could die down with tighter credit.

The rich have also been funding their lifestyles with debt -- from art loans and jumbo mortgages to jet financing. So if credit contracts further, high-end spending also will shrink. cd keys

Gregory D. Curtis, chairman of Greycourt & Co., a Pittsburgh-based wealth-advisory firm, says he knows several wealthy families who already have been burned by investments linked to subprime lending. 'The wealthy may have a bigger cushion between themselves and the wolf at the door,' he says. 'But they're not immune.'

The runaway prices for art, wine, vintage cars and other collectibles are sure to slow next year. The bubble may not pop, per se, since there is so much demand from the newly rich in China, Russia, the Middle East and Latin America. And so far, prices of collectibles have held firm. Yet the markets have become so overrun with financial speculators -- with art becoming the new 'non-correlated asset' and wine becoming the ultimate liquidity event -- that there's bound to be a correction. Look for price drops of 10% or more for some of the secondary artists and wine makers that rely on American buyers.

Private-jet makers are all touting their new 'green' programs, helping the wealthy ease their consciences about burning 600 gallons of fuel to fly to Florida. Carbon-offset programs will grow in popularity, along with efforts to reduce the number of jets flying empty on return trips. Runes of Magic gold

Green-friendly homes, or eco-mansions, will also make headlines, oxymoron or not. Look for more solar-powered home theaters, drought-averse (yet expensive) gardens and indoor bowling alleys made from recycled wood chips.

With the presidential election casting a spotlight on inequality, the rich will feel more like targets. Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama vow to raise certain taxes on the wealthy and liberal billionaires like Warren Buffett and Bill Gross have said the rich don't pay their share.

Whether it's out of enlightened self-interest or self-preservation, the rich may tilt left in 2008 in an effort to damp the growing populist streak in American politics. As Mr. Gross, who made his money in the bond market, put it in a blog post earlier this year, 'Now is the time, long overdue in fact, to admit that for the rich, for the mega-rich of this country, that enough is never enough, and it is therefore incumbent upon government to rectify today's imbalances.'

Any mere millionaire today can buy a Bentley, Hatteras yacht or Gucci bag. Yet how many people can say they've been to outer space? wow power level

Experience and access are quickly becoming new status symbols for the wealthy. The most prized experiences have an educational or altruistic bent, which help deflect populist criticism. Rather than buying another house or Swiss watch, the rich are trekking with penguins at the South Pole, having lunch with Nelson Mandela in South Africa or visiting a village in Bhutan to help build a school.

The final frontier in conspicuous consumption: space. In the end it's all about quality dinner conversation, and a rare trip aboard the space station will always outshine stories of another yachting trip to Greece.

[daifan]

The 60th anniversary of the founding of the changes in 60 years, can be described as one stroke! 60 years of personal experience has taught me to touch the pulse of social progress, 60 years of reform and opening up every one to benefit people's lives.
In December 1978, the party's victory in the Third Plenum was held open the new historical period of reform and opening up, this is our party since the founding of far-reaching significance in the history of a great turning point.
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There are communication tools changes, eighties was hand-cranked telephone, each time when you need to contact your headache, not to mention first post office connected to the operator, and then transferred to a place or a particular unit, if the the other is the signal is not very good, very marked with several phone calls a day and sometimes even have to be connected. The nineties, the pioneer of reform and opening up, waist across the BB machines, the paging call signal at any time, often issuing calls, but also deliberately pretending to hear, let it ring for several more ......, holders of more than The share of pride, self-evident. By the millennium year, cellular phones became a status symbol, the holder should not only out of proportion with their height voice shouting,replica rolex, must also mixed with the local language at the same time, it felt significant in front of Santa. Into the twenty-first century, the hands of every individual has more than one mobile phone, wherever close proximity with each other, work efficiency and economic benefits of double harvest.
Sixty of these changes between the lot so that I lament that, while he had only tens of thousands of people experiencing life in a small microcosm. China's three decades of reform and opening up the Western capitalist countries has completed several hundred years of history, the great achievements not come easily. We live in such a beautiful golden age of happiness and stability and harmony of such a situation also requires us to treasure the and maintenance, through our efforts and struggle of the motherland will become increasingly strong, the people's lives will be getting better and better
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[Jacey]

In a class I teach for adults, I recently did the “unpardonable.”

　　I gave the class homework! (world of warcraft power leveling)

　　The assignment was to “go to someone you love within the next week and tell them you love them.

　　It has to be someone you have never said those words to before

　　or at least haven''t shared those words with for a long time.”

　　Now that doesn t sound like a very tough assignment, until you stop to realize that most of the men were over 35

　　and were raised in the generation of men that were taught that expressing emotions is not “macho.”

　　Showing feelings or crying (heaven forbid!) was just not done. Aion kina

　　So this was a very threatening assignment for some.

　　At the beginning of our next class,

　　I asked if someone wanted to share what happened when they told someone they loved them.

　　I fully expected one of the women to volunteer6, as was usually the case,

　　but on this evening one of the men raised his hand.

　　He appeared quite moved and a bit shaken.

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　　he began by saying, Dennis, I was quite angry with you last week when you gave us this assignment.

　　I didn`t feel that I had anyone to say those words to, and besides,

　　who were you to tell me to do something that personal8?
　
　　“But as I began driving home my conscience started talking to me.

　　It was telling me that I knew exactly who I needed to say I love you to.

　　You see, five years ago, my father and I had a vicious disagreement and really never resolved it since that time.

　　We avoided seeing each other unless we absolutely had to at Christmas or other family gatherings.

　　But even then, we hardly spoke to each other.

　　“So last Tuesday by the time I got home I had convinced myself I was going to tell my father I loved him.

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　　“When I got home, I rushed into the house to tell my wife what I was going to do. She was already in bed, but I woke her up anyway. When I told her, she didn’t just get out of bed, she catapulted out and hugged my, and for the first time in our married life she saw me cry. We stayed up half the night drinking coffee and talking. It was great!

　　“The next morning I was up bright and early. I was so excited I could hardly sleep. I got to the office early and accomplished more in two hours than I had the whole day before.

　　“At 9:00 I called my dad to see if could come over after work. When he answered the phone, I just said, ‘Dad, can I come over after work tonight? I have something to tell you.’ My dad responded with a grumpy, ‘Now what?’ I assured him it wouldn’t take long, so he finally agreed.

　　world of warcraft power leveling,“At 5:30, I was at my parents’ house ringing the doorbell, praying that Dad would answer the door. I was afraid if Mom answered that I would chicken out and tell her instead. But as luck would have it, Dad did answer the door.

　　“I didn’t waste any time – I took one step in the door and said, ‘Dad, I just came over to tell you that I love you.’

　　“It was as if a transformation came over my dad. Before my eyes his face softened, the wrinkles seemed to disappear and he began to cry. He reached out and hugged me and said, ‘I love you too, son, but I’ve never been able to say it.’

　　“It was such a precious moment I didn’t want to move. Mom walked by with tears in her eyes. I just waved and blew her a kiss. Dad and I hugged for a moment longer and then I left. I hadn’t felt that great in a long time.

　　“But that’s not even my point. Two days after that visit, my dad, who had heart problems, but didn’t tell me, had an attack and ended up in the hospital, unconscious. I don’t know if he'll make it.

　　“So my message to all of you in this is: Don’t wait to do the things you know need to be done. What if I had waited to tell my dad – maybe I will never get the chance again! Take the time to do what you need to do and do it now!” wow power leveling