[Subrino]

Je li uistinu slobodan čovjek koji svoj život zasniva na lažima? Jesmo li ipak pokatkad prisiljeni lagati? Obrazložite svoje mišljenje.

[Subrino]

Zašto nitko ne odgovara

Ako vam je uvodno pitanje malo komplicirano, možda da to svedemo na Da li znate često lagati i zašto osjećate potrebu da to učinite?

ili...

Smatrate li da se pridržavamo pravila koja su nam nametnuta u društvu?

[Narayana]

Mislim da ne postoji osoba koja nikad ništa nije slagala. Male laži su ok,pogotovo ako su namjere dobre.

[lugica]

Pa naravno da počesto izgovorim poneku laž, ali ja bih se radije osvrnula na prešućivanje istine. Nije li jednostavnije prešutiti nešto na što ne želite odgovoriti, odnosno gdje biste morali slagati.
Ja postavljam tu pitanje: kad bi vam se dogodilo da prevarite partnera, da li je tada u ime neke iskrenosti bolje priznati i time možda ugroziti vezu, ili jednostavno prešutjeti i preći preko toga?
Ja bih prešutjela i ....život teče dalje. Zašto uznemiriti strasti, bez veze. A ne bih ni sama željela znati da me je prevario.

[buhica]

Je li uistinu slobodan čovjek koji svoj život zasniva na lažima? Jesmo li ipak pokatkad prisiljeni lagati? Obrazložite svoje mišljenje.

Svi mi lažemo, uglavnom kako bi zaštitili sebe ili nekog nam dragog.
Međutim, poznajem osobu koja je patološki lažac, tj u 99 % slučajeva laže kad zine , a uopće nema potrebe za to.
To me jednostavno fascinira, cudi i gadi mi se, jer nakon svih (tj u toku svih) laži očekuje da budemo prijateljice i da prihvatim tu fikciju koju si je stvorila tj uživjela se u neku od izmišljenih uloga.
....Da ne govorim dok prepričava neke zajedničke događaje koliko je toga izmišljeno, a ja se samo cerekam jer mi je neugodno, bar pred njom da velim - pa nije baš tak bilo...
I tako iz dana u dan...

I onda nes pil :-)

[vejan]

lugica, on Nov 22 2006, 01:20 PM, said:

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Ja postavljam tu pitanje: kad bi vam se dogodilo da prevarite partnera, da li je tada u ime neke iskrenosti bolje priznati i time možda ugroziti vezu, ili jednostavno prešutjeti i preći preko toga?
Ja bih prešutjela i ....život teče dalje. Zašto uznemiriti strasti, bez veze. A ne bih ni sama željela znati da me je prevario.

Nemoze ti se 'dogoditi' prevaris partner-a/icu to radis svjesno. Priznati ili ne stvar je savjesti. Ako ne priznas i ako imas imalo savjesti mucit ce te to. Ako priznas, mucit ce partnera a ti ces izgubit povjerenje. Kad pomislis da bi prevarila nekoga, u bilo kakvoj vezi (ljubavnoj, poslovnoj, prijateljskoj) razmisli sto te dovelo do tog, i rijesi problem razgovorom o uzroku. Nezadovoljstvo za mene nije razlog za prevaru nego za prekid. Nisam nikad varao, iako sam imao takvih prilika brdo, jer ne postoji dovoljno dobar razlog da mene moja savjest muci. Niti jedna picka nije dovoljno dobra da mene iznutra kopka, a najgore je kad te savjest pece i kad bjezis od necega.

Laz nije grijeh ako lazi cinis dobro, ali lagati konstantno, kao pojedini moji poznanci/prijatelji ukazatelj je malo dubljih problema. Vjerojatno je to nezadovoljstvo sobom i prikrivanje nekih istina s kojima se 'nemoze' izaci u javnost, to jest osoba se nemoze nosit s istinom. Iz moga iskustva je uvijek bolje reci isitnu koliko god bolilo, tako priznajes sebi sta je na stvari i otvaras si polako rijesenje problema. Ako negiras istinu i pricas lazi samo se sve vise zakopavas, ali prije ili kasnije istina ce doci na vidjelo. a onda:

[flyT]

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[Ljunki]

King Arthur and the "roots of troubles"

The traditional treatment of women in the Arthurian saga is interesting to note in its severity. Guinevere is an adulteress, Morgan Le Fay is a witch, Morgause is an incestuous schemer, and the Lady of the Lake is the leader of a terrible, backward pagan religion. This is, of course, the treatment that has been handed down to us from the medieval writers who gave us the Christian infusion that spawned the story of the Holy Grail. ffxi gil

　　But if we go back to the historical writers——the writers who were treating Arthur as a historical character, not a target for pious retribution or moral sermonizing; we find that women do, more or less, have quite an important role to play in the overall health and well-being of Arthur the King.

　　Inherent in this last statement is this feature of earlier stories: Arthur's story did not end badly. In the earliest of stories about Arthur the King, he wasn't even the Once and Future King. He was a great warrior and won many great victories. He was a great king who had a great queen, and they both ruled a great kingdom.

　　 maple story mesos,Arthur's queen didn't even have a name in the earliest of stories. She was simply the queen. But she didn't, as so many modern stories tell us, have a part in the downfall of the kingdom. Even Geoffrey of Monmouth, in the happier parts of his story, has Arthur and Ganhumara (his name for the queen) holding court in a great castle in a great city called the City of the Legions. (Geoffrey later gives Guinevere a bad name, but she is all that glitters when the story opens.)

　　Also showered with the light of good in earlier stories is Morgan Le Fay. In the earliest of the Cornwall stories, Morgan is the Queen of Lyonesse, where Arthur is taken after his final battle. Morgan is the leader of a group of healers, all women, who will undoubtedly heal Arthur. It is perhaps out of this part of the story that William of Malmesbury crafted his vision that Arthur would come again. (William, you will remember, is the first one to mention that Arthur's grave has not been found; even though he says nothing more, he gives a strong hint that the Once and Future King part of the legend has begun.) wow gold

　　The Lady of the Lake as well fares rather better in the older stories. She it was who gave Arthur his first sword. She it is who is guardian of the old ways, the ways from which comes much of the magic of the original Arthurian stories. The Christian writers wanted to make Arthur a Christian king, and they didn't want any other religions getting in the way of this. Naturally, they made the Lady of the Lake a questionable character solely because of her "religious" ways.

　　The question then becomes one of why. Why do the women come off so bad in medieval stories? What happened to make the writers change their image of people who were so vital to the story? The answer probably lies in the spiritual realm and its resulting scriptures. The same writers who were reading the Bible and discovering that Eve was responsible for all the world's problems probably thought that they should blame Guinevere for all of Arthur's problems. Why did Arthur have a bastard son in the first place? wow gold, Because the scheming Morgause tricked him into it. Why did Morgan Le Fay hate Arthur so? Because she was jealous of the magic wielded by Merlin, Arthur's advisor. Why was the Lady of the Lake suddenly to be reviled, not revered? Because she was the head of a religion that medieval writers didn't understand or want to understand. The teachings of the Bible were such that one religion was possible (in the minds of these writers); anything else was unacceptable. (It must be said here that Arthur, Lancelot, and all the rest of the male characters take quite a beating at the hands of the medievalists as well. The whole story becomes a morality play from which only Galahad, the purse and chaste, emerges unscathed. Arthur and Lancelot, the perfect king and the perfect knight, are undone by their shared imperfect morality.)

　　ffxi gil, The result is that in the modern tales, women are still pretty much blamed for Arthur's troubles. Arthur's dallying with Morgause has come to be seen as something akin to the Adam and Eve story. Lancelot's love for the queen has come to be seen as equal in its devastation to the queen's own adulterous actions (that is to say, it's the woman's fault). Morgan Le Fay is reviled as a witch who wants nothing more than to ruin the kingdom of the wonderful Arthur. And the Lady of the Lake recedes ever further into the background. (Some traditions hold that she is Nimue, whose claim to "fame" is that she enchants Merlin into submission and takes him from Arthur when Arthur needs him most.)

　　If you want to role-play in Arthur's world, you'd better choose a male character. At least people will feel sorry for you. aion gold

[daifan]

I'm the Only One

She was my sister and she was sleeping late. She's a lot older than me and at the time she was about to break into films, directing them, so everybody was indulging her. She was the only girl, too. If something didn't wk out in her life and she had to come home f a while, it was a big deal. It mattered me than if I fucked up in one way another. When Kelly was at home you had to creep around the house and keep your voice down even if it was in the middle of the afternoon. Our mother's Canadian - I don't know why I say that, except maybe it helps explain her opinion about Kel: Smarts Needs Special. It was this crappy little phrase that she had made up and it meant that clever people.wow power leveling, People with special talents, need special treatment. Like they have a disease. You have to meet the Canadian side of our family to understand how cute she thinks that phrase is. I remember thinking that it was bullshit when I was fourteen and it still smells bad now. But to my mother, Kelly was this asteroid that had landed in our lives and no one knew how she got there what size hole she was going to leave. I've never been very good at school, and Pete, our older brother, is the same. Then along comes Kelly. So my mother has us all pussy-footing around like a family mime troupe, waving our hands, taking our shoes off.replica rolex,

I'm thinking of a particular mning, I was creeping around trying to make a silent breakfast, opening cupboards quietly, acting like I didn't exist. I'd been doing it f a couple of weeks since Kelly got back. It felt like I'd been doing it my whole life. The situation came about because earlier in the year Kelly had moved in with this guy called Aidan. They bought furniture, the whole wks. Then she cheated on him and he left her. Apart from Kelly being back in our house, it was also a shame because Aidan was the only man she ever went out with, befe since, whom I've had any time f whatsoever. Aidan was a top, replica rolex,man, a good guy. The thing I like about him was that he was smart, but he didn't need much of this special treatment. He was Irish, from Dublin, and he could be funny, he could talk football and he liked to see other people's mouths open and close besides his own. It was good knowing someone like him. I needed it; what with dad not being around, Pete married and gone; and me in a house full of women. That was the year I was praying f a few me inches on my height and shaving the bare space under my nose hoping that something might turn up. So it was good to know Aidan, six foot three and hairy as a bear. He was hairy back and front and Kelly would tease him about it, and he would laugh her off tell her she could do with losing a few pounds which, between you and me, was nothing but the truth. She was a fat little thing back then. And he went and told her, straight-up; didn't care that she was almost, st of, famous. He told it how it was. That was the way he loved her. She never appreciated it, replica rolex,though, and then she had this fling with some pretty boy in the film industry. But you could see she realised what she'd lost when he left her because she slunk back home and holed herself up in Pete's old room that I'd been using f weights. She took it over and lay in there all day in the dark curled up in a stinking duvet watching old black-and-white films. I remember asking her, 'Why can't you use your own bedroom?' She had a small bedroom upstairs that used to be covered wall to wall in her school friends' graffiti until she went off to university and mum whitewashed the whole thing. I asked her again, 'Why can't you use your own bedroom, that's what it's there f.' She said, 'I can't sleep and wk in the same room. I need a study.' She said it as if a study is one of those things you can't do without, like clean water. I said, 'But I need to exercise.' She said, 'You're fourteen. Your body isn't even developed. The only thing you need to do is stop beating the bishop befe you go blind.' This was classic Kelly. She always knew how to make you feel four inches long in every direction.
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So she came back, and I had to move out all my weights and spread them around the house wherever there was space. I put the bench press in my room along with the free weights. I put the Abdominizer in the lounge. I stuck the chin-up bar at the top of the stairs which lead down to the front do. And even though I was pissed off with Kelly f taking the spare room, having the weights all over the place did make it me like circuit training and doing circuits made me feel like I was Rocky. It's what they do in the middle of Rocky movies; a two-minute sequence to show that over a number of months he got fit and pumped up. You pray f that kind of speedy, magic-time when you're wking out, the same way you wish your adolescence would pass like it does in a TV serial: a school scene, a sex scene and graduation. It's slower and faster than that. And some events become still and solid, and turn into a thing in your life, an object like a lampshade an ironing board. They hang around; you could reach out and touch them. This day I'm trying to tell you about is like that.
So: my exercise. I'd start in my room, and do about four sets of twenty. Then I'd run downstairs and start on the Abdominizer. If you've never seen one, they're like half of something fun, half a bike
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I'm the Only One